How should adult women choose sex toys that suit them? A step-by-step guide for beginners

Preface

When many adult women decide to buy sex toys for the first time, they feel a little conflicted and even shy.

With so many different types of sex toys available, it can be difficult to choose based on appearance alone, not to mention the fact that many people have high standards for quality and functionality.

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For example:

•  “I want something that can be used for multiple purposes and stimulates the whole body. Is there anything like that?”
• “Are there any suitable toys for the BDSM community?”
• “Help me pick out a gift for my husband so he stops masturbating with his hands.”
• “I'm a student. Are there any toys I can use in the dorm?”
• “My girlfriend isn't very sensitive. Are there any stronger toys?”
• “My boyfriend is too sensitive. Is there anything to help him last longer during sex?”
• “I live with my parents and don’t want them to find out. Is there anything that doesn’t look like a sex toy?”

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How should women choose sex toys?

For women, masturbation can generally be divided into two types: internal and external.

Most women can achieve pleasure through external stimulation, i.e., “clitoral orgasm,” but only a small percentage of women are naturally able to experience internal pleasure.

The rest may have discovered it through accidental exploration and experimentation.

In short, almost every woman can achieve clitoral orgasm, while only a small percentage can achieve vaginal orgasm.

There is no “hierarchy” among orgasms—whichever brings you joy is the one to pursue!~~

If you're unsure which type of orgasm suits you, you can try purchasing a few different types of toys to experiment with.

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Clitoral vibrator (also known as egg vibrator)

I asked many of my female friends, and most of them said their first toy was an egg vibrator, and many of them were pink egg vibrators that came free with sexy lingerie.

The most popular egg vibrators today are mainly made of silicone and feature a wireless design. They mainly stimulate the clitoris through vibration or suction to give women clitoral pleasure.

Since egg vibrators cannot be inserted into the body, they are ideal for use during foreplay between couples.

The advantages of egg vibrators are obvious—they are compact in size, can be easily carried in a bag, are convenient to store, have a cute design that doesn’t cause strong visual impact, and some are even designed to resemble cosmetics.

Even if discovered by others, they can be explained away as “beauty devices” or “decorative items,” avoiding awkwardness. They also don’t require insertion, making them very user-friendly for beginners and those who are sensitive to pain.

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Vibrator

Unlike egg vibrators, which are designed for “external orgasms,” various types of vibrators are primarily inserted into the body.

They use vibration, oscillation, and back-and-forth piston movements to help women achieve vaginal orgasms.

Some vibrators also incorporate the vibration function of egg vibrators, offering dual functionality in one device.

Vibrators are particularly suitable for women who experience vaginal sensation during self-stimulation or for couples exploring the internal G-spot together.

However, if you think a vibrator is just an “electric cucumber”? That's a misconception—they come in many varieties:

• AV vibrators (with a larger head for even massage, but cannot be inserted);  

• G-spot vibrators (curved to stimulate the G-spot);

• Rotating bead vibrators (with rotating protrusions);

• Realistic dildos (offering more impact and a more authentic feel).

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Additionally, rod-shaped devices lack privacy, so be mindful when storing them.

Multi-functional vibrator

Have you ever experienced the pleasure of three points being stimulated at the same time?

This type of vibrator combines functions such as vibration, tongue stimulation, oscillation, and suction, combining both internal and external pleasure. It is suitable for women seeking “simultaneous internal and external orgasms.”

However, the design of the multi-functional vibrator is somewhat unconventional. Part of it is an egg-shaped vibrator, part is a vibrator, and some can be worn or used in conjunction with a partner during sexual activity.

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How to choose the right one?

Limited budget: Start with an egg vibrator or a basic G-spot wand.

Living in a dormitory or with family: Opt for a compact design resembling a rose.

Less sensitive clitoris: Choose one with stronger suction and vibration functions.

Exploring internal orgasms: Try a realistic dildo or G-spot wand.

Want to experience both types of pleasure at the same time: Go for a multi-functional vibrator.

For your partner: For example, if your partner is too sensitive, you can use delay rings to help extend duration.

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Conclusion

We hope that after reading this article, you will be able to choose a toy that truly suits your needs from Bestvibe and embark on a journey of exploration that is both comfortable and enjoyable.

If you already have some insights, please feel free to leave a comment and share them to help more girls who are still confused.

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