How to Ride a Dildo: A Comprehensive Guide with Expert Tips

1. Introduction:  Getting to Know the Basics

A dildo can be your gateway to exploring new sensations and enhancing intimate moments. Whether you’re just starting out or already have some experience, choosing the right dildo is key to making the experience enjoyable and comfortable. If you’re new to this, it’s best to start with something smaller and easy to handle. This will help you get comfortable and allow you to discover what works best for your body.

Body Positivity and Self-Acceptance: Remember, everyone’s body is different, and that’s perfectly okay. It’s important to explore at your own pace and not compare yourself to others. What feels good for one person might not for another, so focus on finding what makes you feel great.

2. Step-by-Step Guide: Preparing for the Ride

Relaxation: Set the mood in a cozy, private space. Think about dimming the lights, playing soft music, or even using aromatherapy to create a calming atmosphere. Mental preparation is just as important as physical—take a moment to relax and get into the right headspace.

Lubrication: Always use plenty of lube! It’s crucial for making the experience smooth and pleasurable. We recommend the Bestvibe Water-Based Lube for a natural, slick feel that’s compatible with most dildo materials.

Positioning: Begin with shallow penetration and gradually go deeper as you become more comfortable. Play around with different angles to see what feels best for you. Don’t rush—take your time to explore and enjoy the process.

3. Best Positions for Riding a Dildo

For Vaginal Use:

Prepping with Anal Cleansing: Before engaging in anal play, cleanliness is crucial for a comfortable and confident experience. Using an enema or anal douche can help you feel more relaxed and at ease. The Bestvibe Rainbow Syringe Anal Douches Anal Cleaner is gentle and effective, ensuring you’re thoroughly prepared for anal use. 

Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl: Take control of your pleasure by adjusting the depth and rhythm as you straddle the dildo. The Bestvibe Suction Cup Dildo is perfect for this, with its stable base and realistic texture that enhances your experience.

Missionary: If you prefer deep penetration with minimal effort, this position is a classic choice. 


For Anal Use:
Doggy Style: This classic position allows for deep, controlled penetration, ideal for those who prefer a slower approach. The Bestvibe Anal Dildo is beginner-friendly, offering both comfort and ease.

Squatting: This position gives you full control over how deep and fast you go, making it perfect for exploring new sensations. 

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Side-Lying: This position is particularly comfortable and accessible, especially for those new to anal play. It allows for controlled, gradual penetration, making it a gentle introduction to deeper experiences.

4. Enhancing the Experience

To elevate your experience, consider incorporating additional stimulation, such as a clitoral vibrator or prostate massager. The Don Juan is an excellent choice for enjoying both internal and external pleasure at the same time. Don’t hesitate to experiment with different rhythms and speeds until you find what works best for you. Remember, the key to an amazing experience is listening to your body.

Customizing Your Experience: Different dildos offer different sensations, so it’s worth exploring various types. Whether you prefer a vibrating dildo for added stimulation or a textured one for a unique feel, experimenting with different materials like glass or silicone can significantly change the experience.

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5. Safety Tips and Aftercare

Safety should always be a priority when using a dildo, especially those with a suction cup base. Make sure the surface you’re using is secure and stable to avoid any accidents. After your session, cleaning your dildo properly is essential for maintaining hygiene and preventing infections. Always use mild soap and warm water or a specialized toy cleaner.

Material Matters: Ensure that your dildo is made from body-safe materials, such as medical-grade silicone. Avoid porous materials that can harbor bacteria, as they can pose health risks over time.
Mental Health and Sexual Wellness: Beyond physical pleasure, sexual wellness can contribute to better mental health, reducing stress and improving overall mood. It’s an important part of self-care, so take the time to enjoy these moments without guilt or hesitation.

Community and Support: If you’re curious to learn more or share your experiences, consider joining online communities or forums. Engaging with others can provide valuable insights, tips, and a sense of connection as you explore your sexual wellness.