[Guide] How to use a vibrator for successful masturbation 2.0?

Preface

Many people may think that masturbation is very simple, as long as there is a tool, feel on it, but in fact, obviously do all the “should do”, but in the end there is no pleasure, and even feel the more you use the more tired.

If you have a similar experience, you may want to look at the following points, perhaps you will find the reason.

Physical Reasons

Some of our friends are not happy masturbating, not because the vibrator doesn't fit, not because the stimulation is not strong enough, not because the technique is not skillful, not because they haven't watched adult movies, but because they have health problems.

There are two kinds of health problems:

One is when something goes wrong with purely physical health.

For example, if you have a cold, if you are too tired, if you stay up too late, if you work too hard, and so on, these are all purely physical health problems.

One kind of problem is mental and spiritual.

This “out of the question” means that the professional doctor gave a diagnosis, that is, the mental aspect, psychological aspects of the disease, and psychological and spiritual aspects of the disease will be directly affected by the masturbation pleasure.

And the effect of psychological and mental influence on masturbation is strange, there will be a lot of cold masturbation failure, whether it is to change the vibrator, or change the way of masturbation, it is useless.

The only way to solve the problem is to: get to the root of the problem and completely heal the psycho-spiritual aspect of the problem.

And, there is one more thing to keep in mind:

Masturbation failures can occur during illness, when not taking medication, and when taking medication for treatment, and the two types of masturbation failures, may also manifest differently.

The most common case of psychosomatic illness affecting masturbation is that of a depressed person.

Depressed people take certain medications during their medication regimen, and the side effect of these medications is that they make it impossible for people, both men and women, to masturbate successfully.

However, it is preferred that during the period of taking medication for treatment, the depressed person is in need of masturbation and will want to masturbate, but just can't succeed, and may even be in the outrageous situation of masturbating for a couple of hours and just not feeling well.

Therefore, if you have an illness in your health, whether it is physical health or mental and spiritual health, it is best to go back and fix your health problems first when you experience masturbation failure.

You can rightly say that if something is really wrong with your body and thus causing your masturbation to fail, then you have to fix the physical aspect before you can fix your masturbation.

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Masturbation technology is not yet in place

Masturbation is indeed a technical job, although the technical threshold is very low, but there is always still a threshold, masturbation technology is not in place, resulting in masturbation is not as good as it should be, usually out of the novice friends.

Masturbation technology includes four aspects:

Adult movie

Adult films should be selected to suit their own tastes, choose their own favorite, do not find the kind of adult films that make themselves disgusting and nauseating.

And adult movies are required to watch the whole process, the middle of the best not to stop, if the adult movie aspects of no problem, then we have to refine their masturbation posture, masturbation skills.

Masturbation position, masturbation skills

If this is the case, then you can look at how others are masturbating, reference to learn, absorb advanced masturbation experience.

Friends forums and friends of the transmission of a large number of masturbation contributions to share, you can search for the name of the vibrator, or “experience”, “skills” and other keywords, directly looking for their own need for content.

Vibrator stimulation intensity

(1) Stimulation is too weak

Some vibrators are stimulation is too weak, so the body has pleasure, but not enough to achieve masturbation success, if this is the case, then you can choose to raise the gear, or do not change the gear, prolong the time of masturbation, give the body a little bit of patience, so that the body slowly build up pleasure.

(2) Stimulation is too strong

When masturbating with a vibrator, the intensity of the vibrator stimulation is too strong, although the body has pleasure, but the climax can not be.

This situation is common: manual friends, clamping the legs of friends suddenly turned to use the strong stimulation of the vibrator gear, and the vibrator itself is a strong stimulation vibrator;

Here is a common misconception: many friends will think that the stronger the vibrator is, the better.

Some friends just get a vibrator, is very anxious to masturbate, that masturbation this kind of thing, should be successful at once, but where there is no success at once masturbation, immediately raise the gear.

But the reality is not so, the vibrator can become infinitely stronger, but the body always has a tolerance range.

Once the intensity of the vibrator's stimulation, more than the upper limit of the body's tolerance, the body can not withstand such a strong stimulation, then the body will automatically cancel the orgasmic feeling.

Masturbation for a long time, the private parts will also be uncomfortable, such as numbness, if on this basis, continue to masturbate, private parts will be painful.

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Creating a sense of safety in masturbation

First of all, it has to be recognized that the need for sex comes from reproduction.

And in the long evolution of mankind, reproduction has been a very important thing, if not the most important thing, and thousands of years ago, the body suppressed the act of reproduction when it sensed that the environment was not safe enough.

This suppression included both a decreased libido and reproductive behaviors such as sex and masturbation, even if the reproduction was taking place without the usual pleasure and the inability to orgasm.

So in the process of masturbation, want to masturbate successfully, must create a sense of masturbation security.

Some friends are very sensitive, masturbation environment a change, masturbation posture a change, the sense of security is gone.

For example, originally in the bedroom masturbation, suddenly changed to go to the living room masturbation, go to the bathroom masturbation, then the sense of security is gone, masturbation experience is a mess, so the sense of security, very important.

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The vibrator is not right for you

If the first two are fine, but masturbation is never as good as you want it to be, then at this point, it is likely that the vibrator is not right for you.

At this time, you can try to change the new vibrator, the new vibrator try to choose and the original vibrator has a difference.

If the original vibrator is in vivo + in vitro kind of integrated dual-function vibrator, then choose a new vibrator, we have to choose the shape design and the original vibrator vibrator differences, two vibrators look more like the more likely to step on mine.

For example, vibration replaced by sucking, sucking replaced by vibration, you can also try some niche cold function of the vibrator, such as pulsating, stretching, tapping, ball, kneading, rotating, tongue licking and so on.

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Not ready for masturbation

If you've tried all three of the previous ones, and even switched to several well-received vibrators with different features, and still haven't solved the masturbation problem.

That's the hardest part - the masturbator doesn't want to succeed at masturbation deep down.

Some people call this “sexual shame”.

But no matter what they call it, this is a situation that can only be self-adjusted, and when you change your deep-seated position, then the problem of masturbation will be solved in an instant.

Conclusion

Vibrators are just tools, it's your body, mind, skills and environment that really determine whether you can masturbate successfully or not.

Don't be in a hurry, and don't deny yourself all together at the first sign of frustration.

If you find that masturbation is always almost fun, you may want to check each of the above four aspects.

Masturbation is not an exam, you don't have to get full marks, but you must make yourself comfortable.

I hope these suggestions can help you find a rhythm that suits you and really enjoy your own time of sexual pleasure.

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