[Guide] How to use a vibrator for successful masturbation?

Preface

Recently, a lot of friends came to me and asked why they obviously used a vibrator but still couldn't masturbate successfully. Or that the experience is not as expected.

These kinds of questions, in fact, all boil down to two core concepts: physical stimulation and mental stimulation.

Today, we're going to talk about these two seemingly abstract, but actually critical factors.

After understanding them clearly, you may be able to more accurately determine what the problem is and how to fix it.

What is physical and mental stimulation?

• Vibrators, masturbation, leg-holds, etc., provide physical stimulation.
• Adult movies (including but not limited to novels, comics, anime, audio, video), sexual fantasies, lover's sweet words, etc., provide mental stimulation.

And to experience a successful masturbation/sex, both physical and mental stimulation need to be up to par.

What is the use of physical and mental stimulation?

We can understand that in order to have a successful masturbation/sex experience, both physical stimulation and mental stimulation need to reach the average value.

Let's say the average threshold is 100 before you can successfully masturbate.

Then the formula is: (physical stimulation + mental stimulation) ÷ 2 ≥ 100, then you can orgasm.

If the mental stimulation is lower, then a higher intensity of physical stimulation is needed to bring the mean up.

So, if the mental stimulation is 10, that is, if you watch an adult movie that is very much not to your liking, then one can see that if the value of mental stimulation is too low, then in order to be successful in masturbation/sex, than one needs to make the physical stimulation value higher.

In this case, that is, a vibrator with stronger stimulation is needed.

But at the same time, there is another situation.

When the carnal stimulation exceeds a certain value, the body can experience pain.

• Some people are painful when the physical stimulation is ≥ 120.
• Some people are painful when the physical stimulation is ≥200.

It can vary a lot from person to person, and this is genetically determined.

So people will be too late to pull their carnal stimulus up to 190, too late to succeed, and will experience a pain score of 120 first.

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How to solve the failure experience of masturbation and sex?

The vast majority of friends encounter masturbation sex failure, the problem often comes from: mental stimulation score is too low, here I will masturbation and sex separately.

How to solve the problem of masturbation failure?

When masturbating, mental stimulation mainly comes from adult movies/sexual fantasies.

When you find an adult movie that meets your tastes, the score of mental stimulation increases directly to over 200, and there is nothing necessarily impossible.

Physical stimulation, however, has an upper limit, and physical stimulation is the first thing to face pain.

Only a few people (SM people), in the brain to build a good “pain ¡ú pleasure” conversion mechanism, for this minority, pain is also a kind of physical stimulation, a little bit of pain for them to achieve masturbation success more easily.

But for most people, they can't cross the threshold of pain.

Add to that the fact that many people have very low acceptable pain scores, and a vibrator that other people have no problem using is just going to hurt, or be uncomfortable, or not be able to masturbate successfully for this group of people.

So what can be done?

If you want no pain + successful masturbation, then you can only work on mental stimulation.

Instead of thinking about how to raise the pain threshold score, it's better to just find an adult movie that suits your appetite and raise your mental stimulation.

To use a food analogy, you like spicy food, so this time, you can just try eating spicy potato chips instead of eating hot peppers that are so hot that they burst into flames.

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How to solve the problem of failed sex?

During sex, mental stimulation comes from communication with your partner (and of course watching adult movies together).

This loving communication is mainly focused on foreplay, and there is a classic saying that the vast majority of problems encountered in sex are insufficient foreplay.

Many of my friends' partners：

• Empty long mouth, but only know how to eat, a little sweet words do not speak
• Empty hands, but only know how to play the keyboard, do not know how to caress.

To kiss without kissing, to sweet words without sweet words, to caress without caressing, the only way to express love is to hit the money, which is more than a wooden brain!

In short, the most important thing about sex is the exchange of feelings, love circulation, so as to build high-quality foreplay.

And if the foreplay makes people not satisfied enough, then the difficulty is all pushed and squeezed to the main play, which is a very test of the partner's technical experience, hardware conditions (including but not limited to length, diameter, hardness, curvature, bending direction, shape, persistence, etc.).

Therefore, the most trouble-free way to solve the problem of sex, or to improve the quality of foreplay, lengthen the foreplay time.

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So how long is foreplay considered appropriate?

A: Foreplay, how long is not too long, how long is not too long, theoretically speaking, foreplay alone, can achieve sexual success (that is, orgasm).

So as long as sexual success is not achieved during foreplay, then you are not qualified to say that the quality and length of the foreplay is sufficient.

In conclusion

Whether it's masturbation or sex, if there is a failed experience, many times it's not the body that's the problem, but rather the softer factors of psychology, emotions, environment, and communication that are at fault.

Going back to that original question, “How can I use a vibrator successfully?”

The answer is not to replace it with a stronger device, but:

• Find exactly what you need for mental stimulation;
• Being aware of your physical tolerance range;
• Don't force it, don't compare;
• Trying more and observing your body's feedback.

I hope this article can help you understand yourself better and find the right solution for you. Enjoying the process is the greatest success.

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