An Overwhelming Blended Pleasure-How to Use a Dildo

1.Set the mood.

After you’ve selected and purchased your vibrator, it's time to relax and use it. When masturbating with your vibrator, think of it as a sex date with yourself. Get cozy and set up your surroundings like you would for partnered sex. Put on a romantic playlist, light some candles for mood lighting, or try aromatherapy to help you enjoy your new toy. Basically, treat yourself.

2. Lubricant Required

You always need to use a personal lubricant with any sex toy for penetration. Water-based lubricants are good for almost everyone. Do not use silicone-based lubricant. Put the lubricant on the toy and both outside and inside of your body.

3. Start Slow

Before you insert the dildo, see what it feels like when you rub it on the outside of your body. Use it to massage and stimulate your external genitalia first (either the vulva and labia or the anus). Think of it as if you’re teasing yourself, building up to the penetration. Once you begin to penetrate yourself with the dildo, be sure to start slow.

4.Play with Rhythm and Speed

Once you’re comfortable using the dildo, you can experiment with different rhythms and speeds. The great thing about a dildo is that it will do exactly what you want it to; it doesn’t get tired or get a leg cramp, and you can stop and start whenever you like.

5.Explore Your Depths

You can adjust the length of your dildo simply by holding it around the shaft rather than right at the base. If your dildo is long enough it might allow for deeper penetration and this may be very pleasurable. Experiment with different angles of insertion and you might find some spots more pleasurable than others. You can also experiment with different sex positions to change the feel of the penetration.